few things in life.....

Few Things In life That you never forget and happens everyday....



Few Landline numbers that I will never forget...(in few cases you would find stars as it would be unfair to reveal them in public)...



1. Sreya Tarafdar : 556 ***3...a number that i have dialed innumerable times be it from a STD booth(dere were times when there was not even a landline at home leave aside a mobile) or from a landline..she was a real good friend in school who got lost in the troubles of young heart and mind...many unfair deeds from my side and many innocent tears from her side and today i would really say sorry from the core of my heart to the pretty lady who just broke all ties from us...



2. Avik Ranjan Chatterjee : 2556 ***1 : the number from where a call with well defined conversations would turn to a blank call if ma picked the call..a number which i often used to dial after days and charge the person on the other side for not calling me for days...(well i rarely give a chance to other people to talk when i am angry)...even though i am in touch with this person over mobile but could not memorize his mobile number by heart...



3.Suman Saha : 2*** 4632 : I can hardly forget this number..now i can never coz the last four digits is now our car number...but have had long talks through this number...from blank calls to long calls to fights to little deeds of friendship...this number has given it all...how can i forget those days of shikshyatan when my only incentive to go to school was to come back home and wait for the call from this person...



4.Amrita Talukdar : 2337 ***0 : Well my "best buddy"...she has really been through real hard times..have scolded me to pampered me like a child at different times...her mobile number is also my at my fingertips but this number is yet very special!!



5.Mom's Office Number : This is the number i have dialed hundred times to get in touch with ma and then had nothing to talk about...

Few Things I look Forward to in a normal day...


1.When in Kolkata I really used to look forward to a warm cup of tea from Ma after i landed home after a tiring day...


2.My roommate with a happy face when I return much more tired in Bangalore...


3.A sudden call from an old friend with nothing new to talk...


4.A volvo bus just in time...


5.A cool Bangalore with breeze with few good news and a smile on my face....


Few Things that make me smile when i look back....


1.John Sir's coaching classes with long addas and long cycle ride with a very good friend...


2.Childish act of my friends in school which made me cry...


3.Sneha's tiffin...


4.The boiled egg in Avik's Tiffin....


5.Book fair with the person I love...


6.Sudden visit of my boyfriend(ex though) on our anniversary which eventually happened to be my last day of exam....


7."Kodak moment" as defined by Shatavisha...


8.Long bike rides with my boyfriend(ex again) on highway and a warm cup of tea on a road side dhaba....


9.Proxy in class and then getting caught....


10.Bunking class for playing TT....


11.Uninterrupted adda in Kantakol with continuous flow of cha from Basuda!!!


12.Fights with friends...


13.Saroda's accident and then going to a coffee shop with broken leg and pain in her face...


14.Rationing the most important thing in life...


15.A bouquet from some whom u hardly know and a proposal from the same person in the middle of a busy road...


16.Copying in exams and explaining things to a friend who cannot copy...


17.Sarthak da's tuition....



18.Veg Party at sarthak da's palce and debu's reaction to it....



19."Gotilla" and "swalpa adjust madi" in Bangalore



20.Mota writting Prabir Ghosh as father's name and Sutapa saha(dats my mom) as mothers name in class assignment on pocket money



21.Mota calling me "Chu" till date...



22.Jokes of Dibyo where you at times find yourself in such a situation where neither can u laugh nor can you cry...but end up laughing...



23.Suranjana and her "friends"...



24.She and her pox just during the mock test....



25.Swarnodeep and his writings....



26.Crush on my best friend...and then crying for him all nights and then making fun on it today...




And many more....

robbarer dupur bela.....

kono dino bhabi ni jiboner fele asha din eto mone porte pare...ami sunechilam erokom boyesh kale hoi...jokhon manush mrityur pothe hate...sei samay hoi karon manush tokhon khub ekla hoi pore tai bibhinno purono kotha mone pore...aaj bangalore e robbar dupur bela pathar jhol(definitely not cooked by ma) n bhat kheye jokhon ghum ta holo na tokhon laptop bhorsha..anek aje baje kaj korte korte hotat november er seshe ami kolkata ta te thakle ekta robbar dupure ki kortam mone pore gelo...

dupue gatiye mangsho bhat kheye ekti khub kacher manusher sathe chorom jhogra kortam...jani raag bhanganor janya amake berate niye jabe..jhogra ta sesher dike ashlei bolto "chol beroi"..oi samay rastae keu thake na..rickshaw er kech kech awaje kemon mone hoto ta ghumnto dupurta rege jache...tar raag bhanganor janya ami rickshaw ta k ektu taratari chalate boltam..ferry ghate pouche ganga ta par hote ashadharon lagto...joler chol chol awaj and shibpurer stobdhota theke kemon jeno kolkatar karmo byastotar dike egiye jawa...babughate nebe amar bondhu ekta cigarette dhorato...halka tan marte marte ar hat te hat te pouche jetam princep ghat..kichu lok jon thakto...chotto bacha ra khela korto..lebu cha ar ghoti gorom bikri hoto...pricep er bhetor dike ekta khub faka badhano ghat ache...jowar thakle jol ta anek ta uthe asto...nicher dike ekta shiri te giye bostam..jowar e jol bere pa bhijiye dito abar bhatae aste sei jol halka bhabe shore jeto...shunshan..stobdho..porto bikeler mithe rod..shanto...bikhipto bhabe premik premikara asto ektu nirjonotar khoje...ami kintu shanti te boshe praner kotha bole jetam...mone hoto sara saptaher klanti ta aste aste dhuye jache..kichukhon boshe rail line dhore outtram pouchotam...belun fatiye ar tip practice kore ekta choto bhare cha ar projapoti biscuit khetam ami..majhe majhe ekta nouka ta chore bostam..gongar thanda hawata kemon gaye chuye jeto alto kore...shurjyo dubbo dubbo korche...tar tej jotheshto kom tokhon...dure shohor dekha jache..halka bhabe kane ajaaner awaj asche majhe majhe...mon ta kemon faka hoi jeto..kemon computer format korar moto bepar ta hoto...halka hoi jeto sarir ta...nouka gulor bhetor ekta harican jole...halka alo dei...ghate oi alor ekta adbhut mayabi abesh toiri hoi...ghate nebe ekta pau-bhaji ar soda shikhanji!!adbhut moja chilo tate...okhan theke ekat taxi dhore nandan..pichone chayer dokan theke cha khetam ekta..oi chayer shaad alada...okhane amake sobai chinto...ajo oder sathe dekha korte jai jokhon kolkata jai..shit asche bole new amrket ta tokhon ekta anya rup dharon korto...lok jon jama kapor aro koto ki...aste aste ekta bus be shuttle dhore bari...abar rickshaw chore nijer chena ghore..abar apekha..porer robbarer ar bhabne notun jhograr topic ki hobe...

sanga dite hobe.. anga pete gele.

sanga dite hobe..
anga pete gele...

my dearest roomie said dese words even without knowing what she is saying just for the sake of rhyming....but just thought that how true these words are..today relations happen just for a night..they start over a mug of beer..with a drive back home and finishes off with some regular sins that happen in bed...are relations so much superficial that they cannot even last for a life time..!!!just wondered!!!

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namma bengaluru....

i hate this city..i truly do!!this city can never match the warmth of Kolkata.I am the happiest when i board the flight to kolkata even if it is a for short vacation!!!these are the feelings I had initially in Bangalore...at every damn step that i took in this city i was all the more convinced that i have to update my CV in Naukri so that I can relocate to my city of joy ASAP!!!

few days back,all tired of the city and the low paying & over-stressed job, i was walking down the lane to my home!!!a cool breeze ran through my hair..it touched me and embraced me with passion.I just looked up in the sky and suddenly realized that the city is not that bad also!!with the bad autowalas who can charge any thing from you if they realize that you are not an kannadiga,with the inherent language problem,with the problems of electricity which you'll find absent exactly when you want the greaser on and you have just 10mins in hand for your office bus to honk in front of your house,the city is not all that bad!!at times when your neighbor complains of the late night parties or the casual phone calls that you make on the balcony you'll feel like packing your bags & abscond from the office to reside in the warmth of mom at kolkata but this neighbor's son comes to your rescue when you come back with packets in your hand and dont know how to unlock the door.this small child will make you believe that the city has more to give!!from your health to your microwave shutting down at the middle of night is all your responsibility...the city teaches you how to live...teaches you how to use your freedom in the right way...teaches you how to pamper yourself when in you are all alone in the crowd..!!she makes you realize there are people around you who are lonelier than you also makes you smile when your dhobiwala says "aunty aaj kapda de nehi sakta"!!!i still remember the joy when a small kid asked me "Sister what's the time" since here when your are staying single and alone then your are grown enough to an aunty!!n this city makes you realize that you are a grown up individual who can handle herself alone....this city gives you the charm of missing home and ma all the more...!!the jams which at most times has no reason will definitely make you say that Kolkata was better!!the crowded bus with hanging garden on all women's hair and a stinky floral smell will definitely re-initiate your love for the mom's garden which you conveniently forgot watering!! the city with its unique weather and romantic chill can make you fall in love once again...!!i hardly thought that i would have to plan my cooking while coming back from office but i enjoy it.when utterly pissed off with the utensils to be washed you'll feel great when there is no one to shout at you if you break a glass while washing!!this city can give you good friends who can be your great roommate who will be your all time partner in mischievous activities which would not otherwise do...this city has a lot to give!!

the city is not that bad also..its just that you got to remember that "swalpa adjust madi...this is namma bengaluru"....!!!

babar chiti amake....

Tor mone ache
sei chotto belata?

Sudhu hastis.
Ami toke kole tule
2 hate niye
anek uchute tule dhartam
akasher dike bariye ditam
tui khil khiliye hastis.

Tor chokher tarae
Khusi jhik mik korto
Ami apluto hoye jetam
Bhabtam, tui amar oi mahakasher moto
bishal hobi, Onek uchute thakbi
Ami toke hat bariyeo chute parbo na.
Nai ba parlam , tate ki
Tui to amar Onek uchute.

Tor mone ache
sei chotobelata ?

Tor mone pore
sei dighar samudra pare
jhinuk kurober din
sagorer pagla haoae
tor chokh buje thaka
myer kole mukh guje
nischinta ashray khoja ?


Amar protinioto mone pore
tor sei choto belata
Tor drawing khatae
amar nouka aka
tar upor tor hat bulono
kimba sei machranga pakhita
tor nil froker buker upor
ghapti mere bose ache
tor 2 hat tule
anander prakash--
Amar baba kore diyeche.
Amar baba kore diyeche!!

Tor mone ache
tor sei chotobelata ?

tui ekhon anek boro
amra anekta abcha hoye gechi
babar koler ushnota ar nei
mayer buker gandha ar pas na
elo melo hoye gache
chotobelar sob bhalolagagulo
Tui ekhon sudhui tor moto.

Tui hoyto bhule jete chas
tai bujhi amar ekhon
besi kore mone pore
tor chotobelata
khub miss kori
amar office jabar age
roj tor amar chulgo
elomelo kore deoata.
amar baddo mone porche re
tor sei chotobelata.

a toast to friendship...

on a rainy sunday evening i landed in bangalore with much paranoia & skepticism in mind since the phase i was into just few days before that & my future experience of roomies was mot giving me much peace of mind...but i saw a pretty lady whom i knew the least since my college days waiting for me with loads of enthusiasm and fun..(well her infusion of enthusiasm came from a different source which will be disclosed later)!!

the journey started..a long & a happy journey where i have seen some shocking phase of my life and have fought with this lady beside me!!she was a lady who can give me the happiness just by calling me "Sudu" with a loud & vibrant tone to taking me out for beer when she saw me utterly disgusted with life.I have walked back home all high with beer with this female and have enjoyed the high feelings to the ultimate.I have done all crazy things with her--from singing "tunir ma" at 1 o clock at night to reciting spider man in bengali...she is the female whom at times i named as the "jodhpur park er jatra party r naika" and her jatra has all the more increased..i have spent the happiest times of my life wit her..i have watched the best movies of my life with her and have heard the best songs..we have sung our heart out with the worst possible tone and have praised each other on that!!!

we have done diwali shopping in the hub of south indians where she has explained "tubri" as emerging sparkles and actually bought the best piece among the lot!!we have spent weekends doing nothing and the suddenly to end the depressing days we have decked up with our best dresses and gone out for dinner and come back high!!! at times when our nerves are smoothed by external stimuli we have confessed many good and bad things about each other...

i never thought that I can gain a new friend at this age when life is overpowered by excess tensions in life...

a toast to the new friend!!!

rain rain go away...little jonny wants to play....

these two lines used to be in my lips once I was home when the school declared a rainy day!!!returning back from school with box loaded tiff-in and stuck at home unable to play definitely made me utter those words...but today in the city of Bangalore when rain strikes the city i still utter those words but definitely a customized one...rain rain go away..sweet winter wants to set...!!even though the setting of winter in Kolkata had few definite symptoms like smaller days and longer nights,chilling water,gradual visibility of full-sleeve dresses for people like us for whom winter is more about the temperature published by the weather department and not by what you feel..winter in kolkata was also marked by the stalls in the stretch of road between park-street and esplanade where you could get most fashionable winter garments which according to ma "mora shaheber jama" at a price ranging from 100-1000....film festival is one more thing which definitely says that winter is here..the city truly gears up during the festival..lights and blocked roads!!!but it felt just amazing to see those cinema lovers all around..life was just so smooth...crowded buses with no smell of sweat and festive mood all around!!i even hated to go to office during those days!!

today here in Bangalore i dont even get the smell of winter setting in.the chill is missing..but still i do utter the words here ...i want the rains to go away to feel the winter setting in...to feel the festival days again..to go to picnic n have oranges in the sunday afternoon...