define love!!!!

i am gradually turning my blog to a personal diary..n i need to lock it before people i dont know learns everything about me!!

i was asked a strange question that whether i am happy with the person i love or not???the question was asked by the same person whom i love!!!on facing this question i was asked myself two more things : define love & define happiness!!! i dont know how others define love but i define love as that special feelings that makes you dance in the rain when ur sneezing & coughing day in & day out & then being pulled in a shade by the person of ur life & getting a good piece of scolding from him!!love to me is that sudden sms to tell you that i love you just out of the blue..love is that feelings when u wait for his call 24x7..love is that one special dish that you cannot have sine ur love loves to eat it..love is that nagging that you do when u feel cranky & then get scolded by the loved one & then pampered again!!love is that special things that you do to see your love happy!!love is to cook the special dish for him when he least expects it..love is to give him the sudden surprise that you plan for him just because of no reason..!!love is to deck ur self up & then wait for him to say that you look nice..love is to watch your love taking a glance at you when you are just getting ready for office..love is to understand the person by a single "hello" over the phone..love is to understand the person inside out..love is to take the person in your arms when he is just damn frustrated with everything around him..love is friendship...love is to understand the person as he is and not to understand him as i want to..love is many more things!!!if you are in love & you know the person then you are sure to understand whether he is happy or not..u just dont need to ask him whether he is happy or not!!!can i single "I LOVE YOU" make you fall in love???or can those three words prove whether you love him or not..isnt hating that special someone is also a part of love??i dont know..but i really want know since for me everything that i said is love...u might differ but thats how i am!!!